HOW TO NOT GIVE A FUCK

What do you think when you see yourself in the mirror?

Probably you tell yourself negative things that if we are realistic these may be true or not, but the key is that even if these are true it doesn't matter, be comfortable with who you are.

Does no one want you? Stop giving a fuck about that, as if you will die because of that, don't care, fuck it.

Think, "they don't want me? then I don't want them. Fuck them honestly, they don't deserve you.

Do you think you are ugly based on beauty standards? If you do then what you need to do is don't care, break the standards and be okay with being ugly who cares, yes pretty people may attract more people, but did you choose to be ugly? Nah, can you change that? I mean yeah with surgery you might improve your appearance but not the way you think about yourself,

Do you really think that if you get for example a nose surgery you won't be insecure about anything else anymore? You are wrong there will be occasions where you will be insecure because you actually care about people's opinions so, in the end, the story repeats itself, and just to please people? because let's be serious why do you care about people's opinions? Are you scared they will think you look bad in that outfit, that you are ugly, etc? Well guess what you will never know what they are thinking unless they tell you, you can't control their thoughts, you can't even control yours.

Even if they tell you, these people are just assholes ignore them you can't go back in time and make them shut their mouth but what you can do is not let their opinions affect you. Why is it that you care about their opinion so much? Think about it like deeply

Maybe an instinct, you don't know why? You can stop this, by thinking you are better than them, that's it, but how can I do that? You may ask

Well, do you want to be the victim? Don't pity yourself, don't think bad about yourself, because you are better than them.

How do I know that? YOU CARE, they don't. Repeat to yourself I'm better than them even if they make me feel like I am not.

Pity them, oh poor people they care about your life, your face, your appearance, your outfit so much that they take the time of their life to get in yours, probably they don't even have a life or they feel so bad about themselves that making fun of you makes them feel better. Because when they make fun of you they will think "at least I'm not her/him hahaha " They can't even shut their mouth they are so pressed over nothing that they feel the need to speak up.

\-but maybe they can use this method too. Don't give a fuck about other people's lives, like honestly, you are wasting your TIME, the most important thing in your life, and you give it out like that? instead don't care about what is annoying you, it's not worth it and not convenient because you can get in trouble and bum you just wasted your time.

Give a fuck about your time.

You cannot change someone, that would need a lot of effort and time wasted on a person who is not that relevant.

Like if you think that person is not worth anything, why don't show that person they are not even worth your time and effort, at the end you are actually caring about them and the "you are not worth anything" doesn't make sense anymore because they at least are worth your time.

If you don't have any friends at school and you sit alone or maybe you even hide in the bathroom as if you were not like them so you feel the need to hide. The people outside couldn't even care less about you, that's why you should do the same.

Give what you get.

I mean why are you supposed to hide? just because you don't have friends and you are scared that people may think you are a loner?

I am in fact a loner I don't have friends, I mean there was a time where I used to but they were fake so I dropped them and it was so simple I didn't even care and wasn't sad about it, and we were friends for like a year.

But the thing is how did I not feel sad? Well, I have pride, dignity, and I also knew I deserved better because I know I am a good person so I applied these methods and it literally opened my eyes.

I really like to be alone, I mean who wouldn't? extroverts I guess but you can't always avoid being alone and it's not that bad honestly, people really think not having friends is the worst thing that can happen to you, like friends are not the only thing in life, the most important thing is yourself, take care because, in the end, it's only you.

Choose wisely with what people you are going to be friends with. If you don't then you will waste your time in them. Don't hang out with people that have a bad influence on you or that just annoy you but you are so scared to be alone so you stay with them. And let me tell you something these people are toxic and you don't certainly want them in your life, why do you need to deal with them when you can just drop them and feel better? just drop them without them realizing and then one day bum you disappear and if you end up being alone you can do it confidently, it's okay to not have friends and just stay at home, but make sure you are doing something productive and have some goals, it will help you a lot and you might improve your own persona.

The best thing you can do while being alone is self educate yourself !! You can listen to audiobooks about self-improvement as I do, you don't even have to read and it can help you grow as a person, I do this all the time it's really helpful and you are not wasting your time, you are improving yourself, it's for your future, and if you want you can read or watch videos about something you like or want to learn, you will have more time because you will stay home and it will feel like you are not wasting your time.....

Think about how they are making you feel right now, do they annoy or do they bring joy. If they annoy right now at this moment it doesn't matter what memories you've had with them you shouldn't care, just accept the fact that not everything is like it was before and that's ok, you need to move on, make a goal and distract yourself by doing things you enjoy and will benefit you in the future.

Don't do anything that will only bring you joy for a moment, that will not make you feel any better in the long run, think about something you want to learn, or something you can do to improve your confidence like exercising.

Drink water every day will make you feel good and it benefits you. Also if you can exercise that would be awesome because it will benefit you in the future and you are improving yourself, but don't forget that you are doing this for yourself, not for other people.

It's your life, people will judge you anyways what is there to lose? like they are not the ones who are going to save your life or always be there when you are sad, no they are only the spectators, yes they can have an opinion and they can judge you but it doesn't mean you need to be affected by them, you can't let it affect you and then change just to please them. You will die someday, and you don't want this to happen, imagine just faking who you are just to not get judged, you need to stop letting people tell you how to live YOUR life.

Think, YOU ARE THE ONE WHO MATTERS THE MOST YOU YOU YOU YOU YOU ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN YOUR LIFE YOU YOU BE SELFISH DONT CARE IT'S YOU WHO HAS THE CONTROL IT'S YOU WHO CAN MAKE A BETTER LIFE OUT OF EVERYTHING IN THE FUTURE ITS YOU WHO IS GOING TO DEAL WITH PEOPLE IT'S YOU WHO IS GOING TO BE AFFECTED NOT OTHERS THINK ABOUT YOURSELF SO MUCH AND REMEMBER YOU CAN DO ANYTHING YOU HAVE THE CONTROL TO MAKE YOUR LIFE BETTER.